Drop the idea of becoming someone, Because you are already a masterpiece. You cannot be improved. You have only to come to it, to know it, realize it.

~ Osho ~

You are perfect just the way you are and you do not have to fit into someone else's mold  of how it should be.  If you do not feel comfortable doing it. STOP!  Stop right now and listen to your own body.  We come into this world with nothing and we go out with nothing.  (Possessions)  Haven't you ever wondered why?

Why indeed.  Because these things are not important in the large scale of our existence on a spiritual level and if you can untie yourself from this then you will be free to be yourself!  No has to do anything.  Just be yourself and not what others want you to be.

Image by Mezza -Didjital at the Energy Fair